Don’t Try and Force the Situation
Having set one’s dreams and goals, there is a natural tendency to get too anxious and try and force the situation by trying too hard. As strange as it is to believe this can have the opposite effect and in fact slow progress, leading to great frustration and a distinct loss of confidence and faith.
Once you’ve set your goal and visualised your ideal situation, it is not your job to try and force the issue and bring this ideal scenario into being.
Your task is to relax and have faith that deep down the process of realising your dream and goals is proceeding courtesy of the automatic success system.
Very much in the same way as you naturally do when you worry about an unfavourable outcome, substitute this for a focusing on the possibility of a favourable outcome.
Basically you need to stay focused, relax and have faith that your goal will reach fruition.
Aled Evans
Better Mental Health 