It is most valuable to use creative visualization to improve relationships.
We are receptive to thought forms we hold about each other.
These thoughts and underlying attitudes form our relationships, and cause them to work or not work.
We get what we believe in.
Expect and ask for, on your deepest level.
The people we are in a relationship with are always a mirror, reflecting our own beliefs.
Simultaneously we are mirrors, reflecting their beliefs.
Relationship with another human being, is one of the most powerful tools for growth.
You alone are responsible for creating a relationship the way it is.
Ask, “Why and how you have created it that way?”.
Taking responsibility does not mean you are to blame for the problems.
The core beliefs you have can cause less satisfying relationships, or happy, loving relationships.
Believe and accept happiness and satisfaction, as this creates relationships that work for you.
Look at your goals and ask, “What do you truly want out of the relationship?”.
Consider your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual goals, and write out a description of your ideal scene.
Use a treasure map to express perfect visualization with regards to your relationship.
Take an honest look at your beliefs and attitudes.
Using a clearing process, write “the reason I can’t have what I want in this relationship is …”
Use affirmations and visual imagery to change your negative beliefs.
In order to start visualizing and creating loving, fulfilling relationships, use visualization to improve difficult relationships.
Relax into deep, quiet, meditative state of mind, imagining the two of you relating in an open, honest way, clearing things up.
Be sincere and open to change.
The problem will resolve itself.
It may or may not involve communication with the person involved.
You can say affirmations to each other.
Be honest and stop complaining.
Agree to focus on improvement and things you both appreciate.
Remind her, e.g to be a good listener.
Change your image of her, and her image of herself.
Often we’re stuck in certain roles and images with each other, and we find it difficult to change.
We are inclined to put ourselves and others in a certain box, which is very limiting, and difficult to step out of it.
Creative visualization is a helpful tool for expanding beyond certain roles and stereotypes.
Visualize and affirm new images for yourself and the other person.
See potential for a positive change.
Give energy and support for a positive change.
Realise that human relationships are very complex.
In exceptional circumstances, you may need the help of a therapist or counselor.